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7th and 8th preaching from PASTOR KONG !!!

Thursday, 19 February 2009 :: 12:51 am

We are Earth's Fortified Soldiers

1 Peter 3:7
Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered

-The woman is called a vessel after the manner of the Hebrews, because the husband uses her as his friend and helper, to live faithfully before God. Click here to read more

Points to note about couple:
#1: Sharing.
-learning to share their life to each other.

#2: Considerate.
-learning to be thoughtful for each other.

#2: Appreciate.
-learning to be thankful to each other.
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1 Cor 7:3 [ Good news bible- GNB ]
A man should fulfill his duty as a husband, and a woman should fulfill her duty as a wife, and each should satisfy the other's needs.

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YOU need SKILLS to maintain a relationship.
This applies to our friendship too ! (;Let build it strong (;

Hosea 4:6
My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because you have rejected knowledge, I will also reject you from being priest for me: seeing because you have forgotten the law of your God, I will also forget your children.

IGNORANCE destorys !

KNOWLEDGE is POWER !!

Love Bank is an account YOU and ME have within.

Love Bank is like currency ( love unit )

In different situations, your love bank for a person either increases or decreases.

Example:

comfortable: +1 Love Unit ( LU )
good: +2 Love Unit ( LU )
very good: +3 Love Unit ( LU )
exceptionally: +4 Love Unit ( LU )

likewise if it is uncomfortable, it'll be (-1LV).

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Top 3 needs of MAN and WOMEN [remaining 2 points will be posted at a later entry ]

Women:
#1: Affection - a. Security b.Protection c.Comfort d. Approval
1 Cor 7:3

Song of Solomon 4:1-9 ( message bible )

#2: Conversation

#3: Honesty and openess - no sharing, faithfulness decrease.-no trust, no relationship.

1 Sam 16: 7

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Men:

#1: Sexual fulfillment.

#2: recreational companionship. -A couple that plays togther stays together

#3:attractive spouse -women who make up,has weigh control etc.

-rulan

Labels: understanding man and women

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